Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 we want to have sex but how do i make our first time special?

we have been toghter for 6 months goin on for 7 on 7-14-11 nd wen we make out we get afectinate and we do talk bout sex wen we make out nd she wants it to be sepcial nd if i did do it with her i would get a condom i want to have sex with her i really love her nd i cant imagine myself wit any1 else but how do i make it special nd could dis help us stregthen our realationship if we are in diffrent schools